Jan, 11, 2021
I have a friend who appears to be happening & blissful according to her life on social mediaI met her yesterday and was taken aback when I came to know about the rough patch she is going through. Being an over thinker and a keen observer as a personality, I went into the depth of situation through my own past experiences and without getting judgemental, I was thinking - what really is her bigger pain - Her real suffering Or the one that is forcing her to portray a different public image.Are those ‘Likes and ‘Love’ she gets on social media peps her mood slightly - even a bit then is she ok to spend two different lives (One real and One so called social) and for how long.I am still clueless – All I remember is that when I was facing personal challenges, Social media was a support system specially because I am an introvert and I found that medium to be powerful to vent out and many a times, the positive responses to my posts did use to give me happiness.So therefore clearly the Happiness quotient differs from person to person and let us try not to be judgemental about it – that way, we contribute to equality and respect without being biased. I often share this concern during my training sessions that the first step to cordial relationship is accepting each other (with flaws).
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