Everybody talk about how to be successful but nobody tells how to fail although it is a inevitable part of success journey.If any body is successful today he/she must have been failed lot of times.If somebody is saying he never failed it means he never tried new things in life.We will talk about how to fail gracefully and handle it confidently.First we try to understand ,What is failure or rejection?When we expect something should happen according to our expectation and things does not happen that way we think it as a failure.ORWe can say that when we try to control outcome of any event in our favor and final result is not in our favor we get the feeling of failure.Why we get that S**T feeling about our self?1.We as a human being live in a myth that we can control everything but sorry to say it is not reality.2.We derive our total self worth from that particular event so that we feel so low about ourselves.3.When we attach our self worth to perception of other person,i think it is paradox in itself,how can any person derive how i feel about myself.4.When we are too desperate to get anything.5.When we are too low in patience quota,expect result in our favor too early.So Far we got to know what it is and why feel it.As i said you cannot avoid it,this is a part of our life journey and we can tackle it effectively by generating awareness about the situation so, How to overcome it?1.Here i would like to discuss about two words one is"HOPE" and other is "EXPECTATION" These two words carry same meaning but feeling behind them is very different ,First i will say have hope from everything but do not have expectation difference is very subtle but you will feel the difference.2.Recognize it and embrace it ; because sometime we don't want to accept the situation or outcome for avoiding the blame.Take the responsibility of outcome.Actually we think taking responsibility means feeling guilt actually responsibility means "your ability to response" about any situation.3.Please do not develop victim mindset like this is happening only with you.Get out of it,it will not help you.4.If you are feeling that you hits the rock-bottom,then you have nothing to loose,start building foundation at rock-bottom because rock-bottom is the foundation not conclusion.5.Reflect at your situation for sometime why it is happen?,what are the probable causes?,and how can i improve ?,and not to repeat it next time.Just fill in the blank.Next time,i can........to avoid failure.6.Keep in mind probability of success increase with persistence.7.Start planning and action for future opportunities because you cannot change the past you can only change future by staying positive and performing actions in present.As a basic human nature we always want more,but sometime less is not a bad thing,so keep failing smartly because that only will lead to grand success.