5 day series of Personality Development Program for growing ChildrenDay 2 – ExcerptsOnce upon a time there were two girls- who stood in same class, best of friends and were also neighbours. They use to go to school together on one bicycle, both riding by turnsCompletely different by nature - One belonged to a family of villagers (lets name her as ‘A’) who had both parents and all siblings extremely vocal and loud in their behaviour & body language and social in all areas while other (let her be ‘B’) has a joint family who stayed in urban set up for years. Parents, uncles & aunts were generally quiet, do not interact if not needed, siblings also practiced same behaviour. Busy within themselves.A was aggressive about everything in life - studies, games, storytelling, socializing, friends – always shining bright. B was passive – average in academics, shy, limited friends.Today, after years, A is a Doctor, happily settled doing well in life and B is a successful entrepreneur Now while reading the above story – I am sure many of you must have thought of yourself as A or B. Many of you may have compartmentalized both the girls and have even decided poor girls’ success quiet early in life – probably when they were riding the bicycles Well that’s what we, as Adults, do – we start analysing rather judging our own children when they talk or behave in a particular style and start seeing them as success or failure Yes our lifestyles & choices that we make, are the reflection of the atmosphere that we have been part of however our success depends on the confidence & trust that we have received from our parentsChildren also have different styles of communication, just like we adults do. If we understand & accept them with respect – They will be that twinkling star shining bright, all their life Therefore Parent’s primary responsibility is to identify and celebrate their child’s uniqueness and encourage them no matter whatMom & Dad – Please be vigilant 