Listen, I know what you are feeling in life. I know why you are not succeeding in life. I know why you are not winning in life.It might seem harsh, what I am going to tell you, but, it's the truth. It's the truth that your friends and family not telling you. But, we all need a little dose of Truth, to wake us up to the potential, who we can truly be. Truth can change your life.I am not here to be your friend, but be the Best Friend. Because, the Best Friend only tells you the truth, even if it's uncomfortable for you, to support you, but also to challenge you.Here's the number one reason,why you are not winning, because you are not a STARTERYou just don't take actions. You are not active, you are like Extra in your own movie. Game of life is being played, and you are sitting on a bench, watching.I always used to think, that I have so much of potential, but no action. When I sleep, I dream of great things that I could achieve, but no action. I continue to see thousands of posts on various social platform, watch hundreds of YouTube videos on opportunities and motivation, but no action. Seminars, Webinars, Blogs and no action. It's called Paradox of Choices. At times, we analyse too much on content that we consume, and we become a victim of Analysis Paralysis.By examining human nature, we come across 3 major reasons for not starting and no action.

• Fear of Failure - I am not a good fit. I may not be good at it.
• Perfectionist Procrastination - I will only do when I am perfect at the subject
• What will people say ? Living life of others' dreams and opinions

"Allow yourself to be a Beginner. No one starts at the Top"

I will not elaborate further on above factors; as every one of us have gone through this in one or the other form.When you are in school, you always dream to come first. But you started it with action, by racing, participating, and taking part. When it comes to life, you don't even start. Get rid of that fear, that inaction, that procrastination, that perfection and just take a leap of faith once. Take that one step. Action is a holy grail of life transformation.

"The Biggest Failure in Life is Not Trying"

Second most important reason, why you are not winning, because you are not a FinisherHow do you win the race, if you don't finish? Non-finisher would have left this article by now, and some may not have interest to finish this article. How many of you have stuck to your New Year resolutions. All of us start with new or sometimes same old resolutions every year, but not finish to the end. We all start something in life, a project, a task, an action, a book, a movie - make sure to finish it. If you have not finished what you started, what makes you believe, you would finish the next task. We are lost in priority, reasons, excuses and the result WE QUIT. Make it a point to finish what you started. That gives you a sense of fulfillment.

"Starting strong is good, Finishing strong is Epic" - Robin Sharma

Third reason why you are not winning, because you are not a DriverYou are not giving, what it takes. So many thoughts creep in your mind, fear, anxiety, nervousness. Lot of people start doing higher studies, take training, join gym to get back in shape and they always think about it's not going to work. But you make it work. Your business works, because You make it work. Your job works, because You make it work. Your relationship works, because You make it work. Key here is You make it work. You need to have back on wall, no matter how many adversities, circumstances, difficulties come by, but You make it work. We all fall, we all fail but Driver is never discouraged by it and keeps going.

"When your WHY becomes stronger than your WHY NOT, the journey becomes Easier" - Raakesh Rana

These three reasons, that are holding you back or why you are not winning. Look yourself in a mirror, and find why you can't make it. Whatever reasons you are giving, write that down on the wall, and see it daily to remind yourself why you are not winning.Be a Starter, Be a Finisher and Be a Driver. Be a STAR of your own movie.

"LET TODAY BE THE DAY TO START SOMETHING NEW & WIN" - Raakesh Rana

So, what you are going to commit to? What are you going to change in your life today? Nothing gonna change, unless you look in the mirror and say you are going to change.Leave your comments on what you are going to commit to. Be bold to make a public commitment. Save this article and remind yourself every time, what you have committed.

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Be Alive, Be IncredibleLove and Cheers,Raakesh Rana