Jan, 11, 2021
A balancing Act of Part time working mom..........The stay-at-home mom / working mom debate will probably continue to wage, I choose to be Part time working MOM, where i can choose my assignment as per my time and idea was to get my creativity pumping without disturbing my child schedule.I am sure lot of mother choose to be a part time working mom where money does not play a major role. But satisfaction of career and family does come on priority.Now you must be thinking if everything is good why am i writing this article.......? when you feel everything is fine your are playing role of good wife ,mother,manager, daughter,and many more ..nerver ending......then exactly something is hidden under the table. My 6 yrs old son’s teacher told me he cry in class and says i want to go to mom right now , she will not come to pick me because she has meeting. I was just watching to her thinking i only go for work when he goes to school or class, what else i need to do to understand my child. Then over the cup of coffee i figure it out few things.Part-time doesn’t mean part-time hours. As any part-time working woman knows, part-time in hours doesn’t exactly translate to a part-time work load. More often than not, working part-time simply means fitting a full-time job into part-time hours. I guess that’s one way to look at having it all, right?It can be hard on a marriage. I tread this topic lightly, because obviously every marriage is different. But strangely enough, I have found that when I was working full-time, doing the kid and marriage thing was actually easier. Why? Simply because my husband had no other choice rather than to pitch in, whether that be taking care of the house so he’d have something to wear to work or driving the kids to the sitter’s if I had to be in early. Without me and the kids home all day, every day, there was less cleaning and grocery shopping to do as well. (Do anyone else’s kids eat all day long? No? Just mine?). Luckily I have an amazing and supportive husband.Working part-time has presented challenges that I never anticipated, but I definitely feel like I have made the choice that works best for me — right now. I like to know that the decision of working part-time when I have young children at home is not a life sentence and i am sloving problem my way.It is ok to firm some time , trust me you cannot make everyone happy at every time. And happiness always start with you first.Let go the situation that you cannot control, i am not talking about running from problem , but there are external situation that you cannot change , so it’s ok take a break relax and then get back to work..If you're interested in 'balancing' work and pleasure, stop trying to balance them. Instead make your work more pleasurable. By Donald Trump#parenting#work #working mother #mom #counselor #jyotidadlani #cerebrovocationalplanet #balancefor more help contact on 9870592991
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