Whats your price?Everywhere, friendships - relationships - work - family, there's one issue we always face, how important am I ? Think about this major fights, set backs or emotional roller coasters that you have experienced are because you expected someone to understand you, you expected someone to give you priority, you simply wanted to be picked first. We experience jealousy/ insecurity when we see people effortlessly having a goodtime without us or if they are making important decisions without involving us. Why?Simply because if they don't need us , we will not be important to them or as important to them.Why is being important so important to us ?What are we trying to achieve by being important?What we are really trying to do is rate ourselves!Yes! Think about it. Haven't we been judging ourselves since childhood on what place we hold in different aspects of life, in different people's heart, we are constantly striving to become no.1 priority ( especially in relationships).Yes because when someone doesn't think we are as important the first thing we feel is " am I not worth it?" " Do I even deserve this ?" .Don't we ?We are constantly trying to put a value, put a price to ourselves based on the test " how important am I ?"Even if someone does give you priority, does make you important ! What rating will you give yourself then? Do you believe it will be enough? What rating are you willing to settle yourself for?No matter what value you assign yourself it will never be enough! Because" You are a priceless , infinite being!!!Also we live in a world of internet, the concept of deep connection is now changing to people who we talk to often, send more no. Of snaps too or share memes with. So if you haven't been active on your phone you probably lost your ranking!!So Stop putting yourself through these various tests and degrading yourself by actually assigning a number to who you are ! Again" You are a priceless, infinite being!!!I did this to myself very often, striving to be important in people's lives. It's like everytime you are enjoying something or someone a constant chant in your mind " pick me! Pick me! Pick me! "It was so disappointing , because no matter what happened it would never be enough!I asked myself what benefit will I gain if someone did pick me or picked me first ? The answer was nothing! Infact if someone did pick me I would have more responsibility and that would mean they are expecting me to pick them too!! What are the reasons I want company? Enjoy movies, meals, conversations, travel, etc. I was enjoying that irrespective of whether someone picked me or not! The whole important thing kind off ruined everything for me !So I asked myself , how do I enjoy different things in life ?By simply omitting the me and focusing on the intention! Now I have different people in my life, making my life more colourful! I enjoy movies with different people, have deep conversation with different people, party with different set of friends, travel with different set, share my ambition with different, learn with different. I have learnt to vibe with people at different frequencies and it's never been better. No more expectations and no question of being important, the whole focus is now on having a goodtime, learning and contributing, it's simple , it's easy ! AgainYou are a priceless, infinite being!